Friday, March 30, 2012

I learned something from you, so thank you...

Alas, I must end things with Holly. It kinda breaks my heart since I really do like her, but she really lacks the assertive, opinionated and bold person I really need in my life.

If I was a bit more like Brian, I might have gotten along with her really well, but I find her passivity a bit too much for what I need. I don't need to be in control all the time, I don't need to have things my way either, but I do need someone who can offer her opinions and thoughts on a regular basis. I need someone who can challenge me without being selfish like Gretchen was.

So this weekend, I'm going to have to find a way to end it politely. I feel really bad since I really had a good connection with her, almost too comfortable, but I can't see this being long term and healthy.

I really hope Holly finds the person who is right for her, she really is great.

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